I've been talking to a lot of people lately about relationships. So many have a strong desire to be married or at least be in a good/healthy relationship but can't figure out how to do that.
What do you see when you look at someone?
Most people see...
money or lack there of
status in society
Important to see...
what their source for happiness is
how do they treat others
what do they think of themselves
I challenge you, when you talk to others, to change what you see. Start looking through God's eyes. See what He sees.
A rich man to the world may be a pauper to God.
A beautiful lady to the world may be a wart faced leper to God.
A poor man to the world may be a prince to God.
An ugly woman to the world may be an angelic angel to God.
Who do you want to surround yourself with, those the world finds attractive or those God knows are royalty? Are you more interested in what others think about your spouse or how well the two of you work together/how he or she treats you?